Empower Blog

Want to actually achieve your goals? Whether it’s to live a healthier lifestyle, to change your career, to get something better out of life – you must first empower yourself to take action and make that first step.

For me, empowering myself meant making a career change after 15 years in the corporate world. It was terrifying to leave a secure position, with a good salary and benefits, and risk it all on “following my passion” of fitness and nutrition.

I started from scratch, went back to school, and got my degree in personal training and nutrition. Coming out of school, I had one clear vision: to teach other women how to empower themselves through fitness. I found out first-hand that pushing myself physically and being successful at achieving new goals translated into having the confidence to tackle financial, relationship and other real-life goals as well.

I have empowered myself to become the person I want to be. I now own and run a fitness business, where I am lucky enough to see this concept in motion every day. I see clients setting and reaching goals they never thought possible. I am inspired every day by their hard work, dedication and commitment to living their best lives.

The first step is always the hardest – fear, doubt, uncertainty – these are forces that work against us when we think about change or taking a risk. Don’t let these prevent you from reaching your own goals and dreams. MAKE YOUR MOVE today – empower yourself to do something great. You are worth it!

E- energy
M-motivation
P-positive attitude
O- optimism
W-wellness
E- enjoyment
R – rejoice

Empower is a verb, which means to enable or invest with power. What a wonderful thought, what an even better action! To enable ones energy, motivation, positive life attitude, and optimism in the face of challenge; while at the same time improving their state of wellness and ability to enjoy life to the degree that they can rejoice in the beautiful, vibrant human they have become. ~ Whew, now that’s a mouth full :)

As I dissect the concept of empowerment I can best relate it to the 7 dimensions of Wellness; a well-known tool used by health educators to help people understand the interrelated components of a healthy lifestyle based on self-responsibility and personal choices. When applying this tool to the goal of personal empowerment it would look like this:

The Empower Wheel

When I relate the 7 dimensions of Empowerment to my own life, I immediately think of those positive things that have made me the active, healthy, strong woman I am today; my family, my friends, my belief in a higher spiritual power. I feel blessed by all the things life has given me, from a healthy body to a loving support system.

But I also realize that the choices I make everyday are interrelated and have a direct impact on the things I hold most dear. I have had the opportunity to learn from the best educators about the power of health and fitness and it’s tremendous impact on the way we think, feel and act. I have also had the opportunity to share my knowledge and empower others towards a healthier lifestyle. In doing so I have tapped my own empowerment wheel… and continue to do so everyday whether it is through the example I set for my family, the workouts I lead in my community, or the knowledge I impart in my writings. By tapping this wheel I am in a continuous state of positive energy. I realize that there are negative forces and bad days that may come along in my life and the lives of those I strive to help. This is when it is even more important to reflect on the empowerment wheel to solve and rise above any challenging or dark days with a sense of optimism and self-fulfillment.

Defining “Empower” or “Empowerment” is a subjective, personal, and emotional endeavor. Now that I’m in my 30’s, a wife and mother of two (soon to be 3), I realize that being “empowered” has meant something different throughout the various stages of my life. Today my priorities are my family, my health, and the health of my loved ones. At this moment in time feeling empowered encompasses the following elements:

• Embracing the constant change and unpredictability of daily life
• Being physically strong and fit to handle the daily demands and stresses
• Confidence in my abilities, my intelligence, my judgment for my own direction
• Faith in my decisions for my children, their development, and their futures
• A solid, positive self-image for my personal happiness, my marriage, and to set a positive example for my children
• The freedom to help others by supporting the charities and organizations close to my heart
• The knowledge to find the outlets necessary to give me peace of mind and mental clarity for true happiness in all aspects of my life.

Let me be clear that defining and identifying “My Empowerment” doesn’t guarantee that I’m always on target with all of these elements on a daily basis. Empowerment in my life is a constant journey as is maintaining a healthy lifestyle. There are days or weeks that I’m more balanced and focused. Then there are times that a hectic lifestyle seems to take over.

I’m learning that feeling empowered in my own life is not a matter of success or failure but rather a positive journey of change and growth that will never stop! Get on board and enjoy the ride!

By: Karen Polcaro

At Empower, our goal is to help you become an ACTIVE, HEALTHY, and STRONG woman. To us, becoming active, healthy, and strong does not only refer to becoming physically fit, it also ties into every other aspect of your life, physical, mental, and emotional. To be ACTIVE, HEALTHY, and STRONG is to be EMPOWERED!!

Although as women we stand together, we recognize that each of us is very unique and have different needs. We are at various stages in our lives. We each face unique challenges, whether they are related to family, career, life in general, or a combination of everything! That is why we have carefully selected four amazing women; all seasoned fitness professionals who come from different backgrounds and are at different stages in their own lives. Gin Miller, Heather Hawk, Kathy Stevens, and Rachel Howe will be writing to provide answers to your questions, offer advice, and share their experiences.

However, we thought it was important that before they began sharing their experiences and ideas, that they each define what it means to them to be EMPOWERED.

Over the couple weeks, each of these women share with us what empowerment means to them. Also, check out some of the questions they will be answering (below). These questions came from women JUST LIKE YOU! If you have a question or a topic you would like to explore, please share! We can all learn and grow from the experiences of others! Your voice is important and you deserve to be heard!!!

1. How do I find the time to add exercise into my schedule and what type of exercise is best?
2. What are the best options for eating healthy meals with such a busy schedule?
3. How do I get rid of my meno-pot!... The dreaded 50+ potbelly.
4. What can I do to reduce the pain in my (back, legs, arms, etc) while exercising?
5. Can I ever get rid of the sagging skin on my (belly, back of the arms, neck or thighs)?
6. Which exercises are best for burning fat?
7. Which exercises will strengthen my back/core?
8. How do you get started if you have been inactive for many years?
9. How do you stay motivated about your exercise program?

By Heather Hawk

Everyone has different motivational tools and triggers to keep them on track. Some people need accountability to stay consistent. The consistency has never been my obstacle. My challenge is to push myself beyond my threshold whether it’s get those few extra reps or for the extra mile. Over the years I’ve tried several things to help give me an edge. Here are a few of the tricks that motivate me to kick it up a notch:

• Download music that will pump you up. A mix of up-beat and slow doesn’t do it for me, I need songs that we keep me jamming.
• Talk yourself through the tough spots. When I feel I’ve reached a breaking point I remind myself of my goals (sometimes in my head and sometimes out loud) like a lean body or a tight booty – I repeat it over and over to push through the challenge.
• Find a workout partner (or a few). The key is to find a partner that will motivate you as much as you motivate them – you want to push each other rather then holding one another back.
• Remind yourself of the level you’ve achieved in prior workouts. When I find it difficult to hit a prior distance or number of reps I remind myself that I did before so I can do it again – quitting is not an option!